Before marriage, two people love each other, the woman birdie, after marriage, many men will always complain about the woman this or that, which can not be completely blamed on the man, because after marriage, the woman a lot of crazy actions can really drive men crazy!
The first: the red almond wall
The red almond wall needs no explanation. There is nothing more painful for a man than this, and the end is of course divorce. If there is no child is still good to do, a shot on the line. There are children, two people are very troublesome. The “make do with it?” It’s better to live than to die, let’s cut it off, and the child becomes a casualty again.
A friend once got divorced quietly and didn’t mention it to anyone after the divorce, and only a year later did his friends know he was single. The reason for this is because the wife has a wife. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
I’ve also heard of a man who is very handsome and used to be a prince charming in the hearts of girls. Wife is very capable, he earned a lot of money. But her wife earned more, and gradually the wife red-headed. One day, the wife could not bear to continue to cuckold her, dumped 2 million yuan to him and he divorced. You say that handsome man is not a nest egg, painful death!
How painful do you think a man would be if this happened to him?
Secondly, the lion’s roar
Once a birdie, after marriage The man’s heart can be imagined. The man’s heart can imagine the taste. Tit-for-tat, right?” Too unmanly, and family conflicts will intensify, and even unmanageable! Compromise?” Weakness can be deceived means that an inch, for a long time, will become bronchitis, poop ears. It’s a small thing to say, but every day, it will drive men crazy over it.
There was a man who, after his wife yelled at him for seven years. Divorced. He said he couldn’t stand being a slave and being reprimanded every day.
Third, suspicious and jealous
This kind of thing also makes men very angry. The man is also very angry. It’s not human to be caught in the crossfire, to be interrogated day and night.
A man who divorced his wife after being married to her for more than ten years. His wife said every day that she suspected him of having an affair and interrogated him every day, followed him and forced him to report. He divorced when he couldn’t stand the taste of being interrogated every day. To prove that he is not having an affair, he is not married to this day.
Fourth, economic dictatorship
The wife is in charge of the family and has control of the finances. The power. This is normal. But if the wife is dictatorial, economic dictatorship, the man’s life is difficult. Think about it, the money you earn, as much as the monthly payment. Use the money to apply in advance, strict approval. Clothing pocket only sporadic transportation costs. The more important thing, men out of people out of doors, everything needs money. Wife if not approved, or too late for approval to receive money. Men often have trouble moving an inch.
There was once a man who forgot to apply before going out. I can’t believe I don’t have the money to travel home, so I have to borrow money from my friends. A million times embarrassed.
Fifth, the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law
Have you ever enjoyed being attacked from both sides? Have you ever enjoyed the feeling of not being a man inside or outside?”” That’s what a man must feel like.
Think about it, one is your wife, the one who’s been with you all your life! The other is their own old mother! The person who gave birth to me and raised me. And these two women. To compete for the same man. For baby feeding and education issues. For the problem of living habits. Inevitably a little friction. Once the woman is angry, is not reasonable, only about venting. So the man becomes the punching bag.
Sixth, extravagant spending
Most men’s money money is not a lot, and the hand is not rich. A lot of it, and not a lot of money on hand. If the wife grew up spoiled, big hand. The man’s day is not good. I know a man. Wife is very able to spend money, their monthly salary of 3000, buy clothes but not 2000 yuan a piece of not buy. A month’s salary half a month to spend. The rest of the half month is difficult, always to temporary borrow money to spend the day. Buy a house is a long way off. The money is spent, but also complained that the husband is a loser to earn money, is a waste. The man was very angry, and later divorced.
So, men in the relationship stage. For the kind of extravagant and profligate can not afford to raise the girl, must be respectful and far away. I have a friend who met a beautiful woman in a relationship, and later firmly broke up, saying that this woman he could not raise, and said goodbye before it was too late, otherwise the consequences would be endless.
Seventh, vain and worldly
This woman, first of all The vanity is very strong, good face, every day to compare with others. More than eating, more than the clothes, more than the house car. The woman’s vanity and worldliness will become a shackle on the man’s head. Little C, is such a woman. Every day to compare with others. Husband easily earned enough to buy a set of money to buy two rooms, but she is not a large house of 120m2 not to buy. To husband to go to parents to ask. The husband is not willing to move the parents’ pension money. As a result, the two made a big fuss, the house did not buy a child. Later, the price of housing soared, the original money can buy two rooms can only buy a room. The woman was furious, cursing the man is a waste. Men are very hot divorce. (After the divorce, the man came to work, promoted, the money also earned more, the woman regretted death, the man is also very glad to get rid of such a woman. (This is an afterthought no more.)
This kind of woman, often look down on the man’s poor relatives, which will make the man very embarrassed. The man’s parents also tend to be intolerant. A female doctor, she despises rural people, from the rural in-laws daily reprimanded abusive, rural relatives also cross-eyed cold. The man is in pain all day long.
Afterword: women are often two types of people before and after marriage, many women say that after marriage will become such is forced by men, in order to control their men which women are not so? But the marriage is run by two people, not by a person singing a monologue there, only really good for the man, for the family, which will come so much resentment?