Before a well-conditioned woman falls in love, there is always no shortage of suitors around, but the most promising of them are not necessarily the well-conditioned ones, but often those men who are obedient to her. The only thing is that this kind of love is a hidden crisis from the very beginning.
An Ying is a naturally picky and spoiled girl, with good looks and figure and a good family, and her girlfriends around her think that her boyfriend must be a popular lover who is loved by everyone. But in the end, she chose Jiubeng.
Among An Ying’s many suitors, Jiubeng was not the best in terms of looks, income, personality, or character, but Jiubeng’s greatest strength was that he was obedient to An Ying, putting up with her pampering and capriciousness like a slave to a princess. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
When we first started dating, Jiubeng always looked like he was following An Ying’s lead. The first thing that I would like to say is that I’m not sure if I’m going to be able to get a good deal on this. The company’s main business is to provide a wide range of products and services to the public.
Later, when the two lived together, Jiubeng began to be less obedient than before, but An Ying was still able to overwhelm her with her looks and presence. The two watch TV together, Jiufeng likes soccer, but An Ying always makes him tune in to entertainment programs like recruitment and talent shows; after eating, he is not happy to brush the dishes, every time An Ying forces him to do it; going out shopping, An Ying still buys a lot of useless things, and he just mouths a few mutterings, dare not say anything.
The two lived like this for more than a year, and An Ying was satisfied with Jiubeng’s obedience and felt she hadn’t chosen the wrong person. But just when An Ying was thinking about getting married and meeting the man’s parents, Jiubeng asked her to break up, saying he already had a woman he liked and that he just couldn’t get along with her and felt tired of living with her.
This kind of downfall caught An Ying off guard, and she never expected that the love she was once proud of would end up like this anyway.
I believe many girls are like An Ying, who enjoys being in love with a man who is subservient to her and demands his obedience, and the more men do this, the happier they feel. Some women even demand that their boyfriends must be obedient, just like how Liu Yue’e treated Chen Jichang in “The Lion’s Roar of the River”: you must spoil me and not lie to me; you must do everything you promise me; you must be happy with me when I am happy; you must make me happy when I am unhappy ……
In the eyes of some women, their boyfriends are only really good to them and really love them when they are obedient to them. Some women believe that their own conditions are superior, as a capital, the boyfriend should pay more; some women are even vanity in order to show in front of others how proud they live.
It’s because most women have this mentality that makes it possible for those oily, flamboyant men to take advantage of it. The first thing you need to do is to make sure that you have a good idea of what you are doing.
And some other men, who are not naturally submissive to women, can actually pay for women, putting true love and care in their hearts. The woman’s capriciousness and pickiness can’t get rid of the man who deliberately pretends to be obedient, but is likely to scare away these real men, and such men may accompany you for life.
It’s a pity that many women are often blinded by appearances and don’t want to go deeper to understand a man’s character and personality, let alone wonder why a man should be obedient to you.
At the beginning of a relationship, many men are willing to sacrifice everything to get a woman, and are willing to be a lamb and let the whip in the hands of a beautiful girl gently whip them. But this is only a momentary illusion, because men aspire to equality of rights and even want women to be submissive to them.
In fact, not only men, people have self-esteem, do not like to obey others, even if the character is weak, no temperament of men, do not like to be long suppressed by women, discipline, one day they will rise up, or far from it.
In fact, no man will be subservient to a woman for the rest of his life. The desire to be a slave is just a temporary need; the desire to be a master is their lifelong desire.
Two people in love are not leaders to subordinates, or princesses to slaves or princes to maids, but equal and mutually respectful to each other. The woman should be clear in her mind that a man’s momentary obedience does not mean that the future of love and married life must be happy, to maintain a long-lasting love, both sides must love and respect each other.
Wise women don’t ask men to be obedient, but to carefully observe men’s words and actions to see if their love comes from the heart.
Wise women, although they are superior, do not use this superiority as a bargaining chip to get their boyfriends to be obedient. The most important thing is that it is not just a matter of the time, but also of the time.