Mr. Zhu Deyong once said, “Too many rules and regulations, too many self-imposed requirements, too much overtime, has made the office workers used to a life of inner constraint, two long-suppressed and squeezed into a small space of men and women, breathing, smell, eyes are mixed together. Breath, smell, eyes are mixed together, not day long to grow love it is strange! So, we found a lot of men and women in the office are eye-to-eye, their expressions ambiguous, moody, sometimes happy and sometimes worried, but after a period of time, some people bear the fruit of love, some people but the tree withered flowers, a gloomy end. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
Relationships in crowded places are inherently scary, especially in full view of everyone, and what people say and do in relationships is naturally “monitored” by everyone. The actual fact is, you’ll choose to hold back and hold the belief that “I’ll never admit it” to not let the romance surface. If you decide to go public, it means that your “nest love” will be “tested” by the workplace. As the saying goes, you are indeed in love with a colleague, but you should remember that you are also working with more colleagues. The trick to making an OfficeLove happen is to find the perfect golden mean between love and work.
Office romance stories: Be a low-key couple and be safe first
Love Code
Ding Lan and KU from the next department are a low-key couple in the company, and they generally have very little contact or even conversation during work hours. But one time, a colleague noticed that when KU passed by Ding Lan’s position, he put a light blue sticky note on her computer screen, saying in passing, “Shmily is looking for you, don’t forget the evening appointment.” Who was Shmily? The colleagues around her wondered, as they often saw this “name” in Ding Lan’s cubicle. In addition, from time to time on Ding Lan’s desktop, you can also see some inexplicable numbers or English symbols, or scribbled on the back of business cards, or written on various colors of sticky notes, and occasionally you can also find some traces from the messy pile of paper on her desk. However, this secret, only Ding Lan and KU two people know in their hearts, Shmily is not a name, but a love code – sehowmuchIloveyou, a very fleshy-sounding love words, but condensed in the inconspicuous six English letters, so that love is rightfully in the office
●Relationship Tips: Love on the down low, love on the up high, and tell each other your feelings without even knowing it.
Don’t bring the bad feelings of love to the workplace
After the smoke
< strong>After the smoke
“I was really angry at the time, we had a falling out the night before and he was stubborn as a bull and refused to admit his mistake to me. To be honest, I didn’t want to see him or talk to him at all, but the moment the door to the conference room closed, I suddenly realized strongly that this was in the company, I was working, and he and I were now colleagues. So I held back.” When talking about the incident afterwards, many of my friends admired Vivi’s actions at the time. “It’s not that I didn’t want to rush with him.” Vivi said, “but I saw the office as if a face waiting to see the fun, determination came down, think how can not be a monkey to meet the curiosity of the spectators ah.” The best way to overcome the pressure of public opinion is to stay calm in the workplace and not let your emotions show.
●Relationship Tips: Hang in there, don’t bring the bad feelings from your relationship into the workplace, and when you can’t stand it anymore, think of the gloating faces.
Take gossip rumors with a grain of salt
Take gossip rumors with a grain of salt
Take gossip rumors with a grain of salt
Thanks for your concern
Since Fanny and Cheng Gang made their romantic relationship public, they have both become the target of a bunch of flirtations from their colleagues. “How do you guys look sleepy, you slept late last night?” The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers. The new girl is a new woman. This is how Fanny and Cheng Gang often become the topic of conversation for no reason at all, always on the “table”, for this annoying thing, Fanny and Cheng Gang agreed on a strategy – the more passionate others, the more calm we are – when others are enthusiastic, the more calm we are. The more enthusiastic people are, the calmer we are – when others are excited to ask, respond to a “thank you for your concern”, if there are still people who do not know what to do, then pretend to put on a face, only talk about work and not personal matters. The company’s main goal is to provide a platform for the development of the company’s products and services.
●Relationship Tips: Be cautious of gossip, and don’t be shy about taking “cold butts” to their “hot faces.
Do’s and Don’ts for a Successful Office Romance
< strong>DON’TS–
Public flirting and flirting. (57% of co-workers dislike it)
Public and private, favoritism and affection. (85% co-worker resentment)
Fights in public over personal feelings. (39% coworker resentment)
Jealous because coworkers are too close to each other. (23% coworker resentment)
The two are inseparable at all times. (7% co-worker resentment)
Call each other meaty nicknames. (14% of coworkers resent it)
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There are 73% of women have no feelings about office romance, believing it is someone else’s business and not theirs. But nearly 100% of men think that office romance is not a nasty thing, and it’s fun to watch that little couple flirt every day.
Psychologists talk about what makes office romance work
Psychologists talk about what makes office romance work
Psychologists talk about what makes office romance work
strong>Expert Q&A
Q: Why is it that an office used for work can be a breeding ground for love?
A: Love grows over time. Social psychology believes that mutual familiarity between people is one of the most important factors in generating good feelings. Commuters spend most of their time with their colleagues, even longer than with their families. Because of the work of communication gradually more and more, character and nature gradually familiar, interest and ability to gradually understand, mutual approval and affection, the cultivation of the tacit sense of understanding. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
B: The need for attention. Psychology suggests that any psychological phenomenon arises because of some psychological need. People are in need of attention, and the sense of attention that people lack in modern society can be obtained in the workplace. Others are motivated by the need to pay attention to others and take the initiative to help their colleagues when they experience difficulties or frustrations. If one of them interprets this as love, then a romance will inevitably occur.
C: Stress relief. The tedium of work makes people want something to regulate it. Catharsis is one way to relieve stress, and the way colleagues complain and pour out their grievances relieves stress while giving the illusion that the other person really understands them. This feeling of being understood is one of the conditions for good feelings to arise. And office romance doesn’t have to involve the minutiae of life, so you can get away from some of the annoyances for a while and feel simpler.