Many women who decide to get married are wondering whether they should live with their in-laws after marriage, and whether they will get along with each other or be in constant conflict. Here’s this test to see if you’re fit to live with your in-laws after marriage.
1. Which of the following four options would you choose for yourself first?
A. The bedroom is on the first floor and has a row of large floor-to-ceiling windows with lots of sunlight and excellent lighting (go to question 3)
A. The bedroom is on the first floor and has a row of large floor-to-ceiling windows with lots of sunlight and excellent lighting (go to question 3)
B. The lawn A in the picture is so green and airy that you have it all to yourself as your own open-air fitness area (go to question 2)
C. Every week you can gather your best friends for an outdoor party (go to question 2)< /p>
D. The central garden is only open to myself and my husband every day, making it a romantic and private space for two people (go to question 2)
2. As shown in the picture, if your house is in ① and your mother-in-law and father-in-law’s house is in ②, and you can build a separation zone, what shape of flower and tree would you choose?
A. A closed dense forest (go to question 4)
B. A semi-open sparse forest ( Go to question 3)
C. Instead of woods, the isolation zone only uses flowers (Go to question 3)
D. The isolation zone will not be repaired The barrier (go to question 3)
3. One evening, you are driving back and see your in-laws walking along the roadside.
A. Stop the car and say hello to them (go to question 5)
B. Turn your head to the other side and pretend not to see them (go to question 5)
B. Turn your head to the other side and pretend not to see them (go to question 5)
B. the other way and pretend not to see it (go to question 4)
C. Wave a hand at them in the car and don’t stop (go to question 4)
D. Give the car to the porter to drive to the garage while you walk them (go to question 4)
4. Which request from your mother-in-law gives you the biggest headache?
A. You are not allowed to invite colleagues or friends over to the house (go to question 5)
B. A fixed amount of money must be paid to the family each month (go to question 5)
C. Both of you must be consulted about your plans for large purchases (go to question 5)
D. The two families eat dinner together (go to answer A)
5. Please carefully recall which people, which scenes, which things have appeared inside your dreams in the past three days, and please You have to record the meaning and fill in the horizontal line below, and record a total of 8.
According to the 10 answers you gave, carefully check the 4 options below to see which one matches the one you recorded the most, and choose the one that matches the most ()
A, company, department store, foreigner, someone famous, ritual, driving, shopping, red (go to answer A)
B, station, bathroom, war C, sea, green, doing things, singing, eating, swimming, fruit, mountains (go to answer C)
C, sea, green, doing things, singing, eating, swimming, fruit, mountains (go to answer C)
D, home, forest, siblings, go, come back, get married, orange, dog (go to answer D)
Assessment answers:
Answer A: Avoid the problem and get over it
Living with an elderly person, of course, can be a lot of trouble. Trouble, on the other hand, your way is to put it aside and leave it for later. On the surface, it looks calm, but the problems are getting more and more complicated and serious under the seemingly calm surface. It is recommended that you encounter troubles and entanglements, to first fully communicate with your husband, to come up with a unified attitude, to go and actively channel the elderly, and never avoid conflicts and problems.
Answer B is emotional, reckless and impulsive
You are reckless when things go wrong The fact that you love to be emotional and sometimes inadvertently complicate things artificially are big no-no’s when it comes to living with seniors. If, for objective reasons, you both need to live with the elderly, how to actively manage your emotions and avoid impulsive behavior will be the key for you. It is recommended that you treat your in-laws with courtesy, use your friendships to start communicating your feelings with them, and see your in-laws as your forgotten friends.
Answer C is great for living together
You are great for living with your in-laws. You will not only be a good wife type bride with an understanding husband, but also a filial daughter-in-law who will please your in-laws. You believe that a happy life requires wisdom, not petty temper and petulance, and you are much more mature than your peers. The key thing about living with the elderly is to make them happy, not to sweat the details, and to live a regular life, which fits your personality traits exactly.
Answer D: Be optimistic with a shadow in your heart
The in-laws and you There have been some misunderstandings, and although they have been cleared up, there are still some shadows in your psyche. However, you are a very rational and optimistic person, and you will keep communicating with the elderly to find out what should be done next, what can be done to remove the mutual misunderstanding and disconnection, and find out the best way to solve the problem through communication and coordination.
Editor’s Note: This test is for entertainment purposes only. The fact that people don’t get along with each other is something that can only be answered after a period of time, so women who are about to get married should not treat their future in-laws as wolves and tigers, and maybe you will save a lot of worry by living with them.