After marriage women always like to quarrel with men over cockamamie matters, always like to use several methods to tighten the man, but do not know how a woman can make a man willingly guard her. Women want to make the marriage beautiful, want to make the man not red, want him to stay with you for life, women, you should learn these!
One, the more a woman loves, the more courageous a man is.
Women always like to fight with men on the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really sway anything. In fact, what men are asking for is just a name. They are so lazy, how can they take the initiative to take the responsibility of buying food and washing dishes?
A man is not averse to doing his duty to his family and his woman, and if he can clearly know how much his wife loves him and how much his wife revels in the happiness of spending time with him, he will sacrifice everything for his family and his wife without hesitation.
Conversely, if a man is unsure or even unnecessarily worried about his family and his woman’s feelings, he will behave like a scoundrel.
In matters concerning family and their own women, men love to hear a response like Mrs. Eisenhower’s, “The greatest career that life brings to a woman is being a wife.”
Second, having a generous heart and truly understanding men’s flaws and faults.
Men value their families and women far more than women can imagine, and they are always used to treating their families and women as safe havens and comfort zones. So they want this place to be completely inclusive of their successes and failures, welcoming them back with open arms no matter what.
Three, women must be hygienic and clean.
Despite their own laziness and dirtiness, they cannot tolerate a woman who does not wash her face or feet and is indifferent in the face of a messy home. Because they believe that their homes and their women are their true face.
Fourth, men need the name of the head of the family.
Women always like to fight with men over the head of the family, as if the head of the family can really influence anything. In fact, what men require is just a name, they are so lazy, how can they take the initiative to take responsibility for buying food and washing dishes? It’s like being in a constitutional monarchy where the prime minister decides everything, but can’t ignore the dignity and authority of the king.
V. Men are afraid of being alone.
Psychologically speaking, men are very afraid of being alone and lonely creatures. The real reason single men go out for a drink every night or sleep over at a friend’s house is not that they like to drink or are very close to their friends; the real reason is that they are afraid to be alone.
So married men have good reason to believe they shouldn’t feel lonely and isolated anymore. So when men lose track of their women or they are late or even don’t return, they are terrified like a naked nun in a downtown.
Six, don’t expect men to be the same inside and outside the home.
Women often complain that men are like two people at home and at home, why is he always so polite and courteous to outsiders, but he acts like a tyrant to me? Why can’t he be nice to me too? The woman should not worry about this.
Because politeness has never been more than a social necessity, and excessive politeness can do no good for the family. When a man acts very polite to a woman, it only means that he has lost love for her or done something wrong to her.
Seven, a woman should not be tit-for-tat with a man when he is angry.
The pressures and tribulations that men endure in society are something that women have no way of experiencing, and this bad mood is likely to be brought home to them. So men often pick on women for no reason or lose their temper with them, and when they lash out they are not really upset with women, but are just venting their depression.
Eight, men are also jealous.
Men are no less jealous than women, and far more men die fighting for their lives and under the sword of a duel with a rival than women who are jealous and tear their faces off.
If a woman really loves her man, she should try to understand this mixture of pride and vanity, and be careful about his suspicion and suspicion.
Proactively explaining the reasons and process of her relationships with other men is not only a genuine understanding and concern for her man, but it is also a way for a woman to monitor her own words and actions.
9. Never speak freely about what is right or wrong at home.
A family scandal should not be publicized. The family is a matter of right and wrong, and if you add in outside gossip, a man’s self-esteem must be completely broken.
At that point, even if the man has a desire to reconcile, it’s still hard to ride the tiger. If a woman really wants to solve the problem, her only option is to close the door and discuss slowly. The man’s house rule is: no outsiders are allowed to interfere in his internal affairs.
Ten, don’t compare your husband and family to others.
To men, women comparing their men and families with others is a serious betrayal of their own men and families. They can not be kind enough to understand the woman’s initial intentions and desires, but will only subjectively think that women are picking on them to express their displeasure. They will also desperately think, if you are not satisfied, why haven’t you left right away?
Marriage is run by two people, but women themselves will sway love. When men don’t love you and leave you, it’s time for women to reflect on themselves!