“Itchy marriage” is a new urban emotional disease that has recently emerged on the Internet, and those so-called “itchy marriage people” are those who are unhappy with their marital status and want to change it. The so-called “itchy marriage people” refers to the people who are not satisfied with their marriage status and want to change it. Recently, a variety of applications on the Internet to diagnose itchy marriages have been popular among netizens, and “itchy marriages” are also attracting attention. The first time I saw this, I was able to find a way to get to know it.
Unfulfilled
Itchy marriage is ultimately about the unfulfillment of marriage. The itchy marriage actually boils down to dissatisfaction with marriage. This dissatisfaction can be divided into two levels, one is not satisfied with some of the status quo of married life, want to seek change, this time the two sides are prone to complaints, easy to change the status quo and produce marital conflict. The other aspect is the dissatisfaction of the marriage partner, the couple is easily bored with each other after spending a long time together and start to look for other stimuli to satisfy themselves.
Bored with the old
Bored with the new is a very obvious characteristic of itchy marriage people. It is also a major cause of conflict. When the two people from the beginning of the passion after the face of the day-to-day bland life, will begin to grow bored and dissatisfaction, and thus the idea of seeking change, trying to try new. The marriage can be easily destroyed if a third party intervenes at this time.
Picky about everything
Two people who have been together for a long time will naturally be familiar with each other’s flaws and points, and the trivial life of marriage will make the pressure on two people increase, especially families with children, the burden of family makes each other’s hearts become irritable, and begin to pick on everything, feeling that their contribution to the family is the greatest, this time no matter what the other person does you are The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you are doing.
Relative Speechlessness
Relative Speechlessness is another characteristic of itchy marriages. The most important thing is that the couple is so familiar with each other that they tend to ignore each other and lack communication in their married life. And it is because of the lack of communication, more and more find themselves more and more do not know what the other party is thinking, and thus become more reticent to speak. This is a vicious circle that naturally makes the originally loving couple go further and further away from each other and end up with no words.