Girls who want to decide on a lifelong event, look over here! Before getting married, be sure to shine your own eyes and recognize the marriage object. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
1, never mention both families and parents of men
The majority of the post-80s generation is free to fall in love rather than being arranged by their parents. But for love and marriage, in either form, it is inseparable from parents.
In a relationship, some men tend to care only about their girlfriend’s own feelings and never consider or simply ignore their own or each other’s family and parents.
First of all, it can be said that such men do not have a sense of responsibility as men should, they may really care only about the physical and mental pleasure and relief of being in love, and this is not mature enough for future marriage. The company’s main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.
On the other hand, maybe they never considered marrying you either. If marriage is not the goal, then why would he want to talk to you about deeper topics? If he’s just playing around, then do you think there’s any point in marrying a man like that?
2. The man who often owes money but still wants to “candlelight dinner” with you
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The post-80s generation, some of whom are still working, are still “nibbling”, and most of them are in love when they don’t earn money or even if they do, they don’t have much ability to pay.
But some people go to great lengths to fall in love, asking their parents for money, borrowing money from their brothers, borrowing cars to share a life with you that they simply can’t afford.
First of all, such men are impractical and vain, which means they are unrealistic and unreliable, and they can sacrifice other people to please you, so maybe one day, they can sacrifice you for the likes of others.
And on the other hand, he is unaware of life. The wealthy does not mean happiness, let alone borrowed wealth. What you are looking for is just that person who can really live with you. And such a man may not treat you that way after marriage.
3. Grumpy, violent men
Women falls for it, often because the man is nice to her.
These violent people are often “journeymen”. They treat women well, and when they are good, they will try their best to be good to her, but …… if they are not good to you, they may really fight.
If you find out, then you are advised to leave before it’s too late. Don’t take good for love, let alone continue to develop into a marriage; this is the most direct and effective way to avoid domestic violence.
4. The man who is timid and fearful and obedient to you
“If you want to marry, marry a man like Wolffy, such a man is a role model” – perhaps, nowadays, women like men like Wolffy.
However, “Wolffy man” does not mean timid and fearful, he is only obedient to his wife, but he is a man who is bold enough to take charge and can afford to let go; he is also not
What women need most is a sense of security, if a man can’t even give this, let alone marriage, don’t even talk about love.
5, the man who does not move to break up to blackmail you
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Love is equal; of course, marriage needs that equality even more.
Men often break up to blackmail, women do not care, perhaps he is not simply scare, but there is really a certain problem between you. The company’s main goal is to provide a solution to the problem.
In either case, this behavior is bound to be a threat to your marriage, and if you don’t notice it, you’ll only have yourself to blame in the end, because it’s undoubtedly a time bomb you planted with your own hands.
6. Men who are addicted to money, alcohol, cigarettes, and gambling
Many of the women who leave messages or write to me do so because their husbands have bad habits. They are either disregarding their mothers and children for their own careers, or they are idle all day, making little money for themselves but relying on their wives to support the family.
Never sympathize with such men, don’t think they will change their bad habits because of you. There are times when you can’t bear to watch him suffer. But the reality has long been that the home is not like a home and the children are not like children.
In many cases, women will choose to go on, saying it’s for the sake of the child. Afraid of the shadow in the heart of the child. So, why didn’t you find out earlier when you were in love? The first thing you need to do is to wait for the marriage to be left behind.
7. Men who are willing to divorce for you
Hurt another woman because of you, ruin a marriage.
Because you hurt another woman and destroy a family, then there is no guarantee that the next person to be hurt is you and the next to be destroyed is your own family.
There is no denying that you have real feelings for each other, but you are, after all, his lover, and the real beauty of a lover, I’m afraid, is the lover himself. Once you become a wife, you are destined to the end of their love, the end of the novelty and excitement, the end of the so-called happiness and pleasure. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you want to do.
If he gives up his family for you, such a man is the most hateful and irresponsible. You are, in the end, not likely to have a good outcome. It is the right way to choose the relationship that is truly your own before it is too late.